CEO/Principal Consultant at INNOQ, he/him, software architect, RESTafarian, conference tourist. Works at innoq.com. Fediverse: @stilkov@innoq.social

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I have zero tolerance for a typical gamer gate troll, clearly no discussion is useful there. Yet there are many more where it's different
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Many times I see people piling on outraged comment after comment, with zero positive effect for anyone
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Of course that's a risk. I still think there's room for strong disagreement without aborting conversations completely
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Which is why I don't use it with someone who I know is part of a minority
And I'm completely aware that's a tone argument.
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I'm quite sure we agree on the goals. My point here is that we often alienate people who could be convinced, for unnecessary reasons.
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Apart from offering help, and interfering against abuse, by working towards a society with a more inclusive attitude in general
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Not what I suggest at all, no. I think it bears remembering that most of us were worse than we are today, and condescension rarely helps
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I'm not convinced a zero tolerance policy is helpful, especially if it's fellow privileged people who apply it
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Assuming people can't learn doesn't seem justified to me. Convincing them takes empathy even for people with shitty opinions.
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In most cases, I think it's ignorance, not hate
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I would love for this to be the case; I'm not so sure anymore
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Being an old fart, I very clearly remember having those opinions a decade or two ago. “Hateful” misses the point IMO.
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Ich glaube, ich muss mich übergeben
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Replying to @mkhl
My engaging with A at all makes engagement with B more likely, leaving me with a subtweet of my own as the most respectful option
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We must be talking past each other, putting words in your mouth was not my intent at all.
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So what you're saying is: If my complaint is that A didn't follow that rule, I have to “escape” B's handle? but I can link to B? OK.
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Replying to @mkhl @ewolff
I'm all for anti-harassment features, such as keeping strangers out of your timeline
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But I can't link to them or mention them. Isn't that what a subtweet is?
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Replying to @mkhl
You're right. Next time I'll phrase my criticism as more of a personal insult and subtweet it.
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