treating a negotiation like war very rarely leads to long-term success, but is what many people do. my negotiation principles: be fair and reasonable, figure out what the other side most wants and give it to them, assume good intent, and minimize your side’s tribal instincts.

Jun 25, 2022 · 7:43 PM UTC

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These are great principles! A few additional of my own are: - Ask questions. - Find common ground. - Target a small number of desirable outcome (1-2).
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I really loved @Prof_Malhotra 's definition - negotiation is fundamentally about human interaction. How do we engage with other people in such a way as to achieve a better understanding and better agreements.
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Dems tried this with Reps I’ll let you judge the outcome on that.
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If you're in a zero sum negotiation it's not really beneficial and try to find better deals where it's win/win.
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Ok I wanted to ask a question and make an objection but I found myself humbled by so many great thoughts under this. I don't see normally one tweet with 1K likes and thoughtful answers on Twitter. @elonmusk would probably be happy to see this.
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Let’s negotiate open access to AI models then!
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Agree, and don't bend over backwards to make the other party happy.
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True for negotiations. Sometimes you need to consider war-like strategies to start a negotiation, though.
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To get someone into that mindset a good trick is to ask: If you got {all the benefits}/I got {nothing} would you be happy with that deal? That will shift most people from a "maximize my own benefits" mindset to maximizing the overall benefits and looking for the ideal situation
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if you are chosen to negotiate with AGI for humanity we are doomed
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