Is there a happier perspective than "teh suck" for times when you want to do things you used to do with ease and loved but can no longer do?
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Yes, everyday. However, I choose to dwell on what I can do.
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I'm phasing into that. It is a process, at least for me. For you?
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Scoliosis a problem all my life. Selective Service rated me as 4-F, but i challenged the ruling & spent 4 yrs in AF. Won't let pain rule me.
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Replying to @ColorSimulation
The most brutal aspect of my grieving is his falls and finding him unconscious and paralyzed in his own waste. He was a proud man. Broke me.

Sep 9, 2017 · 10:17 PM UTC

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Replying to @mholzschlag
The hardest part of pride is admitting that you need help. I constantly battle this problem. Pride is the reason I hide my pain.
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I empathize. It's hard for me too. I want to never have to rely on others. However, that also blocks the opportunity for another to help us!
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