How have you dealt with dysfunctional, truly abusive family/people who do not get help? I go to therapy. They don't. Everyone says CUT TIES.
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Yes. It's the only way to heal, grow strong, and stay sane. Forgive on your schedule. Forget? Move on when you're ready.
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Replying to @playwrightswife
Forgiveness is easier when it's other people. It's me I'm most angry at for allowing it go on and on and on despite knowing. I kept up hope.

Jul 7, 2017 · 3:38 AM UTC

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Replying to @mholzschlag
That's a hard one but it can be done. My mantra for the past few years has been to be kinder to myself. It works.
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It's a good mantra. Mine is working on reconfiguring the "you are a horrible person and do not deserve life" so my mantra is now "WATCH ME!"
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