I need help examining my wreckage. I want to understand how I failed so it never happens again in this sense. How do you face your failures?
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@mholzschlag the important part is to get the emotions turned off if you want to be unbiased.
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Replying to @hittsjunk
@hittsjunk Exactly! That's where I do not have the "pause point" - I'm very impulsive and impatient. I feel off? I have to fix it Right Now.

Mar 25, 2016 · 10:15 AM UTC

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Replying to @mholzschlag
@mholzschlag Bad events taught me how to shut down emotions when needed. Until you learn that figuring out what happened will be difficult.
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@hittsjunk Um, I think I have reached one life's quota of bad events, thanks. I don't need more bad events. I need more self-control.
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