I need help examining my wreckage. I want to understand how I failed so it never happens again in this sense. How do you face your failures?
Mar 25, 2016 · 3:55 AM UTC
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@mholzschlag once I'm not emotional about the situation, I sit down and look at it logically and methodically.
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@hittsjunk I try to reason it during the maelstrom. I iterate feelings before reaching logic. There's a pause point in there I need to find!
@mholzschlag the important part is to get the emotions turned off if you want to be unbiased.
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@hittsjunk Exactly! That's where I do not have the "pause point" - I'm very impulsive and impatient. I feel off? I have to fix it Right Now.
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@mholzschlag Sometimes visualizing ways the situation could've been different by changing in your mind things you did or didn't do can help.
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