Old and unwell you visit for a child's wedding. Another child in the same city is mortally ill. Your energy is very limited. What do you do?

@mollydotcom do what will give you strength

@HilsCheyne I don't understand the meaning. Is it: if it gives strength to pretend a child doesn't exist, that's what to do?

@mollydotcom I can't judge which one. That has to come from you but the process of deciding shouldn't detract from your 'recovery strength'