Do folks think it's terribly selfish to want to be accepted exactly as you are - failings, foibles, wounds, scars and all? I'm uncertain.

@TinaHolmboe Very good point, Tina. I do think defenses are necessary but there's a line, particularly for naturally open people @ipedrazas

@mollydotcom @TinaHolmboe but it doesn’t mean to fully open to everybody. Common sense, ladies :-)