I was so happy choosing palliative care and now I don't know what to do in the inevitable deterioration of a long lived person whose condition was meant to and in death a decade ago. Do I fight? Would that make me a better person

Dear Molly, you are a good person, therefore you cannot become better. So this is not an argumentation. Look what is important to you, what gives you joy, what you would like to do ....

I have never believed I was good when told by the most intimate people in your life your family that you are a liar that you fit in your life away that you are worthless that you are nothing that you will never accomplish anything. My mother did overcome cluster b NPD ON HER OWN.

We all have our beliefs - they vary according to age, gender, culture and experiences. It is important that we are good to ourselves only then we can be good to others and that we can forgive others and ourselves