I was so happy choosing palliative care and now I don't know what to do in the inevitable deterioration of a long lived person whose condition was meant to and in death a decade ago. Do I fight? Would that make me a better person

Mar 10, 2023 · 6:58 PM UTC

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Replying to @mholzschlag
The decision is yours Molly. You can curl up and enjoy or fight on. But whatever you do, do what YOU want. Love you
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I love you too Nancy and we've been through so much together this is a hard one though he really makes me face my friend death and I've been staving that off for a long time. 60 changes things it time and perspective and refiguring out my life and how to find quality I love you
Replying to @mholzschlag
Whatever you choose is the correct choice.
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I thought it was now I don't know. The kidney problem is new but it should be checked out with a CT scan meaning I have to go to the hospital. The worrisome part is the aortic problem which is somehow coagulated despite low platelets and Coag factors meaning in hospital surgery.
Replying to @mholzschlag
Dear Molly, you are a good person, therefore you cannot become better. So this is not an argumentation. Look what is important to you, what gives you joy, what you would like to do ....
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I have never believed I was good when told by the most intimate people in your life your family that you are a liar that you fit in your life away that you are worthless that you are nothing that you will never accomplish anything. My mother did overcome cluster b NPD ON HER OWN.
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