You know as I age I find the constant topic of sex and sexuality to be very base and unappealing. Sure the drive to procreate is hardwired. we don't have to make it so important. There is so much more to life and focusing on one thing is very limiting. Mix it up a little bit.

Yes I can relate.

I think there are many people like this but when we speak up people attack us as if we're somehow damaged. Spending a lifetime focused on one thing is so limiting.

We have created a real problem by constantly talking about what's hot and what's not. It has resulted in very damaging Behavior across gender and gender identity. I hope this clarifies a bit. It rises to obsessional in the media and in our value systems in this culture and others

Oh yes and it starts very early with adults asking kids abt their boyfriends etc.

Or nonsense like sending an 8 year olds that would be me to the school psychologist because I was interested in science and they had to intervene because I probably would turn out gay. I don't look at gender and I don't identify myself as any gender identity. It seems unnecessary