How do you perceive yourself at the end of it all isn't that most important or is there a greater struggle that I don't connect with because I simply cannot I've never transitioned? I think it's more to do with preconceived notions of how we're supposed to act in our gender roles

It's an interesting point but I don't take away more from the article itself then and idea of how personality might work for different people I don't see that being a consistent pattern across any variation of humanity especially what makes us us.