How do you perceive yourself at the end of it all isn't that most important or is there a greater struggle that I don't connect with because I simply cannot I've never transitioned? I think it's more to do with preconceived notions of how we're supposed to act in our gender roles

I know that this is possibly considered marginalizing it is not intended to be that I have been standing up to all forms of prejudice my whole life and there's some real hate that's come my way for ethnic gender identity fluid sexuality and direct open unedited expression..

We're all victims of unjust societal results some of us object to it and protest. I suspect you are already well on your way to being your very own free human. I mean free because you can throw away by us and embrace yourself as you are for who you are. that is self realization.