The last 7 days were "Piss on a Widow Week" in my F2F world. No care or word about Ray, "get over it it's 5 yrs"', I must put on a dress, makeup, get sexy or I'm no woman. 2 F2F pals werer kind. I'm ill. This is abuse. Will it never end? My peeps here? You kept me together. xo/m

Feb 14, 2022 · 5:17 PM UTC

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I'm afraid I'm missing some context to understand 'F2F'. Regardless, you are a wonderful person who I have had great pleasure in following for years. Your work has been helpful in more ways than I can enumerate. llegitimi non carborundum - "Don't let the bastards grind you down"
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Thank you what I mean by face-to-face are the people in my immediate environment locally as opposed to my extended family here. Thank you for such kind words they are comforting indeed right back at you!
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I can't possibly imagine what it is like to lose a spouse. I love you. I'm not a great communicative friend, but I do. Get rid of the negative folks. It pisses me off they'd do that.
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I love you too and I'm working on getting rid of them. I can't seem to read hidden agendas and manipulations or what people do that for I just don't think that way ever. As for communicative I go with the flow mentality with friends and fam. I often get isolated, uncommunicative.
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Don't get over it, Molly. Ray was a great part of your soul, floating your spirit higher in the midst of a literal flood. There is no expiration date on devotion. And it may go without saying: You are under zero obligation to "pair up" with anybody, just to establish your value.
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So sorry to hear that - no-one can tell you how to grieve, or that you will get over it. Your grief is a part of you.
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Hang in there Molly. Sorry it's been a rough week for you. Hope some words of encouragement over twitter help.
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