Personally I find identifiers of humans one of the most dangerous things we do. Race identity ethnicity class religion all factor into some of the world's worst words and events ever. And I don't know how to identify other than by Molly. Gender-wise my identity is nonspecific.
Most descriptions are very demeaning in some way. I think that's my problem really that I find it insulting especially because people assume before they know. As a Jew that brings up so many assumptions. That I'm religious I'm not. Israeli in origin. I'm not. Zionist oh so not.
I hope at some point your parents will become more aware and recognize that love for a child as you are for who you are is far more logical than wanting you to be what they imagine they want you to be. Despite real crazy violence and abuse my parents did have incredible ethics.

Feb 10, 2022 · 8:35 AM UTC