Personally I find identifiers of humans one of the most dangerous things we do. Race identity ethnicity class religion all factor into some of the world's worst words and events ever. And I don't know how to identify other than by Molly. Gender-wise my identity is nonspecific.
I suppose it depends upon how you grew up and where I have known that word for a very long time. My mother had affairs with women and my father did it too but more covertly. One brother has been out and proud for most of his life. He and life partner identify as bears.

Feb 10, 2022 · 8:17 AM UTC