I was called a horrible person yesterday and it really hurt I don't understand I'm traumatized I'm confused with end-of-life illness and I miss my husband so very much. I am sorry if I hurt you I never wanted to hurt anybody I never had malicious intent ever I I'm so sorry

Sep 29, 2021 · 10:27 PM UTC

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Replying to @mholzschlag
Molly, that is their story not yours. You have nothing to apologise for. Keep sharing your story and we will listen when you need us to.
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I am cruel I use offense in order to defend myself it's not correct and I know it and I don't want to be this way anymore and I've been seeing Professionals of every ilk for 50 years nothing has helped except the love of Fred's and it has to be relentless even when I'm a bitch
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Replying to @mholzschlag
Hug x I know that we've never met in person but 'a horrible person' certainly isn't something that I would associate with you. I remember a psychologist saying that what people say to you very often says much more about them than you. Know that you are loved dear Molly.
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I've heard that to Gareth and many people have said that to me now and I know it's their projections I can see that but I do trigger anger and I can be very vitriolic and angry and I know it's not right. It started happening 2016 Trump and the rise of nationalism in my own losses
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Replying to @mholzschlag
I've only known you a short time, and "horrible" is not a word I would use to describe you. That person is projecting. You're wonderful.
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I think the world of you thank you for saying that to me it is such a comfort. We haven't known each other very long but you haven't reached my life so greatly and I am very grateful to you.
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Replying to @mholzschlag
We are imperfect beings being asked to respond to a cruel world with utter perfection. I am so sorry for the pain you are going through. And so sorry that whatever happened added to it. Here’s to a better day, new friend!
Replying to @mholzschlag
There's no justification for such a comment. You are among the most resilient people I've ever known. As much as you've survived, you've more than earned the right to growl and snarl at the world. That person either doesn't know you, or see that you are sustained by love.
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Replying to @mholzschlag
You are an amazing friend. And i mean that in a good amazing!
Replying to @mholzschlag
You are not a horrible person.
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