Friend responsed to bias Q. Was aadopted but refused by almost all as family. One elder: 'love don't go outside blood.' I'd be crying still but saw pic of Dad arriving for planned shared search for OG birth family. Help me out. Is adoption for some a twisted form of charity? WTF?

Seriously, if “love don’t go outside family” then how in the world do people who aren’t related fall in love and get married and have a family?