I can't fix a car to save my life. I don't have that ability. I am a part from the ability to fix a car. Does that mean I'm disabled? If we don't know we can argue it using logic. PEOPLE! It isn't about right or wrong thinking. One does not have to win. One never really wins.
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if the typical age, sex, culture etc adjusted expectations are that one should be able to fix a car then yes.
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So I could respond to that with should I believe that all people must act like sheep and follow the lead of their dominant culture? I'm not saying this to be contentious. Again. I am pointing out that this is what we do everything has to be one or the other not both or all.
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i need more coffee to braon to reply to that coherently. but yes, apparently we all should comply with some preset norms in life. like learn to use toilet, speak english etc by certain age, grow at a certain speed. any variation deemed too much = bad
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Replying to @Unuhinuii
I hear you with the more coffee and I'm not trying to make an argument out of the difference in our thinking I'm just challenged by the idea that I must be something because other people tell me to be that way. Beyond a basic social contract defined by law morality is subjective.

Apr 4, 2021 · 2:07 PM UTC

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Replying to @mholzschlag
so adult variant of must be disabled because can’t do pretty handwriting or make fancy shoelace knots?
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If you choose to believe that, sure. The religious aspects of my ethnicity would have me home with six children and subjucated to a man. Not for me. I believe people are better to challenge all bias and assumptions. "Question Everything" then choose. And iterate that process.
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