If you’re suffering somewhere don’t stay silent. Finding that there are others experiencing the same at the hands of abusers (often leadership) is remarkably liberating.
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Replying to @jenstrickland
Prior to Trump's campaign and presidency I would probably have strongly agreed with your statement since then things have happened that made me realize how complicated grouping and naming people is and how wrong we can be and how much harm we can do to each other because of it.

Jan 30, 2021 · 7:40 PM UTC

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I've heard things out of people's mouths and seen behavior that I didn't see prior to that man. Maybe it's because it was subsumed into the common culture or it's just willful ignorance. I lean towards the latter. Two areas that are especially irksome for me right now are
The hyper focus on my last name as being related to me in any way genetically. It was in a simulation. The same is true of the anglicisation of my first name. The second is women who pursue academics over romance. I've heard such crap out of people's faces in the past few years!
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Sorry I meant assimilation voice input sucks! And it turns around and generation my grandmother was so frightened of her identities she made her children assimilate by force. So despite the fact she was assimilated and persecuted none the less she thought hiding was best
So yeah I fight it. it makes me combative out of frustration because people don't know, don't want to know, or prefer a different truth. Like flat-earthers for example LOL. I have started denying all human identifiers other than human or those who practice self-identification