I have thought a lot about trauma and the dissolution of identity through grief and enormous loss. I have made the decision that no one can understand what it means to lose a mother a husband a career a beloved home and everything I ever dreamed of in the course of one year -

Jan 13, 2021 · 5:03 PM UTC

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what that did to a sick dying woman already. If you can't figure that out please do not follow me anymore. I am what I am and I will pick up the pieces as I can or I won't but I will not stand for being denigrated and hated and misunderstood for merely being Human.
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I will speak my mind I will write my mind and whether you consider it crazy or not I do not care this is my right until the end of my life. I helped build this crap that became social media I belong here more than most.
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I am not kidding you do not want me as I am or you want to attack or denigrate my Humanity go away please. Otherwise I welcome you as my friends and I need you more than you will ever know and more than I know how to express. Thank you for reading and hanging in with me always.
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I do push people away I'm terrified to let anyone help me except in the most distant and remote ways and I am ready for change in myself in others and the world. May Life bless us all with Better Days.
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I hope to remember that when/if I need courage. And yes ma'am.
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Your cross is pretty large. Your wisdom has adapted.
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1) You’re incomparable BUT I can relate to your suffering from what I know of (including past work to support publishing efforts with a client/friend who specialized in undertaking study of trauma as a psychotherapist) +
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2) I personally have more empathy than ever, since we share (apparently always have) the “world view” that the origins of the ‘nets & social media were based on optimism & hope for the future. Yet, here we are, struggling for existence in our career-industry’s lack of rewards!
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Replying to @mholzschlag
✨Hug✨ Your voice and experience is invaluable. I do wish the world was more aware on so many levels.
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You do you. We are here if and when you need us. No one gets to tell you how to react to what you’ve been through.
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