I want to address something that came to my attention. I mentioned somewhere that I have been at home since March, and someone replied with "hahaha someone is going to get fat". Growing up, I used to be overweight, and this comment was triggering. (thread)
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Since March, I had to accept that there will inevitably be weight gain during the length of this pandemic. I'm still trying to accept that, but I used to be someone who did their own groceries, meal prepped, and chose what they would or would not consume. I was also working out -
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- regularly at the gym, I was getting in 25,000 - 30,000 steps a day. Now, I accept whatever food I get. If I had to tell my parents what to get me, they would be at the grocery store forever. I would rather them be safe (in and out of the store), and get whatever is most -
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- convenient for them. In terms of fitness, it's really the last thing on my mind to go for a run or hop on an exercise machine because of how intense school is. I'm also walking 500 - 2,000 steps per day. Not a fan of that at all, especially since I love to run, move, etc -
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- but this is just how it is! The point is, if it isn't something I absolutely NEED to know, keep the topic of my weight to yourself. In fact, perhaps don't think about it at all. Other people's weight is no one's business, especially if I don't know you. Just don't. Thanks!/rant
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Not that anyone cares, but I'm not kidding when I say it took me a long time to teach myself the importance of health. So again, not being in control of that is really damaging, and the extra comments are not needed. This is a 15 year difference. Bye.
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Replying to @rothecoder
Shame on anyone who attacks us for our humanity. The problem is not yours but theirs. The clarity expressed by you of your situation shows you are taking care of you the best you can during very difficult times. I'm sad it triggered your pain.

Jun 15, 2020 · 1:31 PM UTC

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