I'm having one of those difficult mornings. My wife passed away 3 weeks ago...I realized today that I need to 'disconnect' her from all her social networks. This is death in the digital world. I wonder...are there digital cemeteries? #SaturdayMorning #SaturdayThoughts
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When I am the most lost without my husband, I hear his motto "NO MATTER WHAT!" and am so comforted by that and it becomes a soother as well as a motivational force for learning to live a different life we never expected to face. Using the joy in a good marriage has soothed me.

Apr 12, 2020 · 1:41 AM UTC

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Replying to @mholzschlag @mpaciello
Moments of peace come, even in that early agony of injurious pain. Hang on to those especially and they come more frequently over time and stay longer. Ritual, community - nature all helped me. What would your love want for you now? When I live that answer, I feel better.
Replying to @mholzschlag @mpaciello
I deeply empathize. And while this body stays in place, my own heart wants so much to offer comfort for having been so comforted by you. I am here, I am able to be silent or listen or cry or laugh. Whatever support I can offer, it is for her memory and your living. Peace.