Thanks for the kind thoughts for my birthday. I know I can look at it a different way, but I'm not there yet. For me, it represents the joy I felt when my husband Ray was in inpatient rehab at the V.A. and actually walked with support as a gift for me. 12 days later he was dead.
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Time can mean F*** all when the pain, heartache and grief hurts so much. Memories don’t care for time, it can still feel like yesterday. I’m so sorry that it’s hurting so much for you. I’ve got the first anniversary coming up of losing my dad (diagnosis to loss, 5 days.) it hurts
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Replying to @goo
I couldn't have said it better. And no one knows this quite like those of us who suffer such massive punches to our fragile hearts. I'm truly sad for your loss.

Jan 27, 2020 · 8:22 AM UTC

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Replying to @mholzschlag
Same here, sending hugs to you Molly. I loved getting to meet you at a couple of conferences, you lit up the room.
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