When someone we love gets angry and stops talking to us, they hold our power as we can't make restitution. I've decided this is a shitty thing as it is manipulative and passive aggressive and life is too short. If someone you care about is silent treatmenting you, they are fools.

if they can't tell you to your face what you did and how if we can't fix it with them, to correct it in the future. I have a brother and a girlfriend of over 30 years that will not out what their issues are and just leave me sad and wondering and also realizing they are cowards.