I just had yet ANOTHER woman tell me "You should find yourself another husband to take care of you." What is with that? My mother deeply instilled a fierce sense of independence in me, so much so I have trouble with real intimacy. Why *women* tho? Men don't ever say such a thing.

Jan 18, 2019 · 10:42 PM UTC

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My husband gets VERY frustrated when I don’t let him take care of me enough. I’ve been learning to surrender to him for some self-care. He is hands off when it comes to my work schedule & professional events. It makes for better teamwork.
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The one regret I have about Ray is he fooled me until he couldn't anymore by letting me think he was healthier so I could travel for work and time with my Mom. I can't be mad about it though, it was a gesture of him supporting me being me the best way he knew how. 🌸💜😀
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Ultimately, you do you. You’ve certainly earned it and deserve it.
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I like that saying "you do you" :D
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Because women grow up in misogyny too
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Even when the message at home is the opposite. My mom was a socialist and feminist and particularly hard on me. I now see what she was fighting socially and feel grateful for her attempts against the status quo of the time.
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Nothing. I'd love it! But I'm of a different mindset. I married the one who cared for me. He's gone from us now, so who needs the trauma and drama? LOL!
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THank you my dear. That was a wonderful time and I remember it all except the part after the third bottle of wine ;-) Long Live @ParisWeb
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