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You're free to use the words you wish to use I have nothing more to say on this matter thank you very much for your participation and answering my question
Replying to @cyc1one1000
This discussion is over thank you so much for your participation
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Your value is the value that you hold of yourself. And I have been in very difficult passages of life when I have had both emotional as well as physical influences really messing with my behavior and thoughts it was much harder to achieve that value. And you are valuable to me
I understand the difference yes it does help thank you. I simply think design pattern works much better for me why use extra adjectives that do not add but can confuse? Design is context pattern is the subject of that context. Seems a lot easier and less controversial to me. You?
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Replying to @shawncrigger
I wonder if something like that wouldn't help? It seems silly but it is a known technique and it might help it certainly helped me and it actually helped me throughout my life because I become rather fearless of many things as a result but respectful of the fears that I do feel.
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Replying to @shawncrigger
Fear is a natural response to threat and you are under threat most certainly with this situation. Much younger in my journey I met a woman who had a heart replacement. She had me speak to the fear and thank you adding how much stress it was causing me on top of the stress already
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Replying to @shawncrigger
At least it looked and I just saw your next sweet and I'm so very sorry you're going through this you have my absolute empathy and best wishes for a very good outcome.
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Replying to @shawncrigger
That makes sense I'm sure there are other contributory factors but it seemed right away that it was a generational difference and I think a lot of these things are!
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No apologies necessary I'm truly interested in the conversation and I'm learning a great deal about different perspectives. The wear and tear is not from this discussion my dear
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Now that is the way I've heard it describe just design patterns without any adjectives
Thank you for the explanation I have been in web design a very long time but I have never used them or heard them because I'm not a designer perhaps?
For my friends in the #prescribedharm discussions I've found for me unless faith forbids it for individuals ilt is not harm to prescribe what is now termed palliative sedation. It's used now in hospice for a peaceful final sleep. Who knew?
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They're not colors perhaps but they all seem very negative to me to be exploitative to be manipulative to be harmful our patterns that really exist what should we call them I'm just struggling here I'm struggling for answers that's all I'm not trying to cause conflict at all
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I truly appreciate what you're saying I really do I hope you know that
Replying to @barneycarroll
It's a very interesting point of view and I think I get it. I talk about death and dying because that's what's going on with me and people say I'm dark because of that but for many cultures that is not dark at all and I don't see death as Darkness I see it as reality
A question not a challenge not a conflict I'm curious why is death always associated with dark and many cultures and light with life?
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Replying to @barneycarroll
I'm not sure it's just a European perspective but rather a perspective that is shared among certain people worldwide
Replying to @Amy_Hupe
Changing languages in bad and I also suppose it depends on where you are in life you have to be priorities I talk about death and dying a lot now because that's my reality and is that dark people sure tell me it is
Replying to @shawncrigger
I understand that and I felt that way one time but I now have regrets anymore of grand proportions as I knew the end of life there was so many things I would have done differently. And so many things I regret to the core of my soul that I wish I didn't but I do.
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Replying to @EmmaJ_PR
I think I am deciding I have to leave it to the other people to decide for themselves and if it's offensive to somebody and they tell me then I will do my best to acknowledge and honor their wishes otherwise it's hard to change after 60 and when you know your time is very limited
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