I do not hate these people Marianne but they must be held accountable for their crimes. If we "love" them as you say and let them off the hook, they will only view it as weakness and a green light to do it all over again.
Start with your own party. Dementia Joe is a criminal and a racist, but there's a D by his name so it's ok. He and Kamala condoned violence by BLM and ANTIFA all summer. Kamala helped with bail. Media celebrated the violence. Joe ignored it until his poll numbers went down
but they also need help. Their feelings that 'their country was taken from them' isn't entirely incorrect - just aimed at the wrong people. The inequality and dysfunctional political system did do those things.
I feel bad for people getting tricked into doing something like this
Sandy Fisher
