1/ I remember interviews of Trump in the 1980s & he wasn’t that bad. He wasn’t someone I would’ve voted for for president but he had a reasonableness about him. He wasn’t horrifying.

2/ He changed over the years. It was apparently Kushner who convinced him that playing the hate card would get him elected president. I tend to think if he had stayed who he was, he still might have won in 2016 & he’d probably be headed for a second term now.

3/ For so long – and I know, we still have 40 some odd days to worry about – he was such a malignant presence that all some of us could think about was how to get him out of the WH. Now that his presidency is waning, I think of him less as a danger and more as a human tragedy.

Are you suggesting you feel sorry for him?

Feeling sorry for someone & feeling an impersonal compassion are different things. I totally do not feel sorry for him - and I want him held accountable - but at the same time I want to enter 2021 without the toxicity of the negativity I have felt in my heart over the last 4 yrs.