As
@aloria pointed out in her quote tweet, we get this for so many different topics.
Can’t tell you how many people do this to me, on bounties & everything - & it’s not just publicly, it’s in DMs, emails, & what frustrates most are the friends irl who do this to me.
#exhausted
Every time you speak up for yourself, someone says, "But that's not what I was trying to do." You can't explain to them that you spend every day defending your knowledge, your experience, and your qualifications. If you do explain, they think you're exaggerating or overreacting.