One benefit of marriage I did not fully understand in advance: there is now a person who is even more invested in your day-to-day happiness than you are. Means that someone is actively finding ways to improve your energy, which is a huge boost in productivity & creativity.

Apr 22, 2022 · 4:27 PM UTC

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Where's the difference with a relationship? i'm not seeing it.
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In a “successful” marriage
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In marriage you & your spouse are on a team. If she's not winning I'm not winning. It's a team sport and you gotta lift each other up & play together to win 💪
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More than just two brain-lobes, but two people looking out for each other, anticipating each others' needs... and communities filled with people like these... in fact, in stark contrast with the echo chamber of two brainlobes, their self determination spilling out into the world.
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?? Isn‘t there a bias here? No cost function? And you are late for Valentin‘s day, aren‘t you! Anyway: Love likely is beyond economics 101; 1+1>2, so be it. I know this rule: Keep a 5:1 ratio of being positive/critical! It is the sustainable relationship principle. Keep tweeting!
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Some are not that lucky..
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Merits adding that to them, you are the person you described.
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In giving...you receive!
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Well, this active search and find lasts just a few months, days or seconds.
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