@MojangSupport why isn't the realms invite working???? I've been invited, accepted it and its not showing up.

What platform do you happen to be on and what platform are they on? ^TK

Well I'm on Xbox and the host is on PC, what is tk?

TK is my signature. Anyway, Is your friend playing the Windows 10 edition of the game, are your multiplayer settings set up correctly? ^TK

I'm pretty sure we never had this problem occur, it just suddenly happened. When he invited me to the realm, for him it says it's still pending, but for me I accepted it and it still doesn't show up for me.

I'm gonna have you both sign all the way out of your Microsoft Accounts and sign back in. May be worth resetting both your routers (just to rule it out as a connection issue) Please back up any single player worlds: bit.ly/3jiNA8W ^TK

I don't think that'll work.