Xbox Players - you will be receiving an update on October 5. Please do not uninstall during the update! Check out this article for more info: help.minecraft.net/hc/en-us/…

Realms are unplayable since a few updates latly it crashes constantly and sets us back a few hours

You may have some luck by trying to load a previous backup and clearing out any unused data such as old worlds, unused marketplace content, or save data. Give it a hard restart and let us know if that helps so we can narrow down the crashing issue. ^AM

That didnt work either the issue is now each time we play our realm. We get disconnected and lose hours of progress.